Such a wonderful feeling, like love, gives us happiness. Meeting with love takes place in childhood, adolescence, youth and even old age. This is a gift from God, which is not given to everyone, so you should not refuse it.
Autumn love
Many older people have the feeling of an empty nest. The children grew up and went to study in another city. Or they have created their own families and live separately, sometimes abroad.
If in such a situation a person is left alone, because he has long been divorced or widowed, he begins to feel lonely. At this time, he periodically has thoughts that the rest of his life is not necessary to live out alone, but you can rebuild your life.
True, for some this desire is hampered by negative reflections: “Oh, no, nothing will work, anyway I will never meet such a wonderful person as he / she was ...”, or: “Why should I look for problems at my age? After all, you will have to get used to a new person, he may turn out to be boring, dishonorable ... ”.
However, there are people who are not burdened with unpleasant memories of the past or negative fears about the future. They are ready for a new relationship. After all, no matter how old a person is, he also wants recognition, a sense of his need and significance. He has not lost his desire to be interesting to someone.
Many of these people have accumulated life baggage, wisdom. They know that the main thing in life together is tolerance, the ability to accept a partner as they are. Over the years, the realization has come that living together is possible only on the basis of mutual compromises. They understand that getting rid of loneliness is worth opening up to the world and new encounters, finding the meaning of life, discovering new perspectives.
New love gives energy and rejuvenates. It is as if a person sheds the burden of years, his life is filled with renewed content. Entering into a new relationship, a mature person is aware of what exactly he wants to receive and what he can give. For a mature couple, it is important to make each other's life easier, brighten up the autumn of life.
Love at an older age is a bright flash of emotions, a new streak of life. Sometimes feelings are so strong that people did not expect to experience them in their declining years.
Most of them have a lot of life experience behind them, including those related to relationships. This experience has not always been positive. Many have experienced negative emotions, because of which they decided to close themselves from love experiences so that they no longer suffer. Fear of suffering makes such people wary of the prospect of close acquaintances.
However, adulthood is not necessarily old age. Each of us has probably heard older people say that only the body grows old, and the soul remains young, and inside they feel younger than their passport age.
Suddenly, an unexpected acquaintance happens, a feeling of mutual interest flares up, a desire arises to continue communication.
Subsequently, lovers say that this feeling became the brightest in their entire life and they regret that it came now, and not in their young years.
People who have lived long lives tend to be more calm and self-possessed, they are more tolerant, they know how to manage emotions and give in. This helps them build harmonious relationships.
However, we must admit that there are elderly men and women who have not gained wisdom and behave frivolously, irresponsibly. They commit ill-considered actions, the consequences of which they are unable to foresee. Here, as always, everything depends on the person himself, his personality, experience, ability to understand life and feel people.
