Despite technological progress and the increase in communication means, people lose the ability to communicate live and it becomes difficult for many to establish contact and relationships with the opposite sex. And today, for most people, who spend almost all their time at work, it becomes an almost impossible task to meet their soul mate. How to solve this problem? Indeed, very often most people do not have time to meet on the street and then internet dating comes to the rescue. How to use dating sites correctly? Any person immediately has a number of questions: Why and with whom do you want to meet? How to choose a dating site? What should be indicated in the profile when registering on a dating site? And there are many similar questions. In this article we will consider those questions that will answer all the questions that interest us.
For example, if a person goes to meet at a disco, most likely he is looking for easy flirting and short relationships. If a person registers on a dating site for a serious relationship, perhaps he is looking for a permanent partner, his "soul mate" (although sometimes not). How to effectively use the capabilities of dating sites, correctly fill out a questionnaire, depending on the goal and select photos for your account? First, consider:
What are the fears and misconceptions associated with online dating?
How to use dating sites correctly to find your soul mate there? The fears associated with online dating are that: "What if I meet there with a criminal, a maniac and generally a very dangerous person?" What can be said about this? This can be. But in the same way, you can meet this maniac on the street, at a disco and even at work. The probability of meeting such a person on the Internet is not lower and not higher than on the street. You are very much afraid - protect yourself, meet in crowded places, ask for a phone number, ask for the car number if you will be picked up by car. Such measures will be sufficient.
Another common fear: “My friends will see me. Is it embarrassing what they will think? That's how I am here ... and get acquainted on the Internet. Well, I can't get to know each other in my life, does it work? " What in this case? In this case, choose photos where your face is not very visible and use a fictitious name. That is, conditionally, if your name is Tatyana, nothing prevents you from calling yourself Olya. And at a meeting that follows an Internet acquaintance, you admit that your name is different. Do not be afraid, this will not frighten your companion, the chosen one. Another name, not a very obvious photo - your friends won't figure you out. Trust me, your friends don't surf the Internet to find out which sites you are registered on.
Dating sites are used by scammers who work with any other sites. That is, with the help of dating sites, gigolos work who are bred for money. All sorts of scammers work with the help of dating sites, that is, a charming girl can come to your meeting, spend a wonderful evening and talk about win-win earnings using the Internet.
Of course, when you read the next message on the forum "Making money with the Internet", you do not really believe him, because there are a lot of them, and we all know that this is something wrong. But when a charming sensible girl tells you about this, I really want to believe, because she liked the girl. That is, all types of fraud that exist on the network, they all exist on dating sites. Yes, you need to know that too. But in the same way, when you go to the car forum, you probably also remember that you should not send money to an unknown address.
What services of dating sites are not recommended?
On a dating site, such a thing as a virtual striptease is common. You may be offered to put money into some kind of internet wallet or transfer a small amount. And for this amount by Skype, by video link, you will be offered to watch a striptease. But very often the striptease turns out to be some girl who stands with her back to you, and you can see her from the lower back to the neck, this is where the striptease ends. Therefore, I do not recommend using such services, or even then choose a trusted site.
Can you find your soul mate on a dating site?
On the other hand, the likelihood of finding a chosen one is much greater than on the same street, in a store, a disco, and so on. Why? Because people come there who want to meet. A person walks down the street to get to work, to the clinic, buy food, and so on. A person goes to a disco in order to get acquainted, however, more often this is an acquaintance for one night. But on the Internet there is a person who really wants to get acquainted. Therefore, there are normal people there, whose goal is to get to know each other.