A relationship with a naughty girl.

[Vynnetanon]

Before entering into a relationship, you need to look at each other) Everyone understands this, but feelings sometimes overwhelm, the heart is pounding, the brain is silent, and the amount of oxytocin in the blood is off the scale.

In this state, it can be very difficult to assess the real situation. Therefore, I have prepared for you a description of five types of women, which it is better to avoid right away, because nothing good relationship with them does not promise.
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Our psyche is so arranged that internally we do NOT always strive for happiness and full-fledged mutual relations. We meet different people on the way. And the unconscious chooses hysterics, bitches, moms or cold narcissists as companions) Realizing your choice in time, it is important to make a decision. An adult solution. Leave or stay.
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want to offer you 5 types of women with whom, in my opinion, it is most difficult to build a harmonious relationship (whether you are a man or a woman, it does not matter).

The problem with these women is that they are not ready to change. Either they don't see the problem, or it makes sense))
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Hysterical

This type of women is more common than we would like.

Before Freud, this was the name of all women who were observed by neurologists and psychologists, different parts of their bodies were taken away from them, they went blind, deaf and fell into catotonia. But a lot has changed since then) Now, according to modern psychoanalytic theory, the hysterical personality type (inherent not only in the female sex) can be outlined with precise frames and identified quickly enough.

What is so dangerous about hysterics (by the way, the medical term, no offense)? They are not dangerous) It's just that they will take out your brain before you even have time to understand what is happening)).
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These are very attractive, interesting and bright women. Their strength lies in their childlike spontaneity and charisma. They know how to attract attention to their person.
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a relationship, a hysterical woman will be warm and loving, but only as long as everything goes according to her scenario. She will get to know you very well, study you and will always manipulate you until she gets her way. And despite the fact that these women are very warm, loving and gentle, not everyone can tolerate constant "quirks".
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Hysteria is the state of the inner child. A little girl cries, breaks dishes, screams, curses all your relatives and calls for dark forces, threatens to commit suicide and finally faints). And all because you hinted that the dinner was tasteless or there was none at all.

How to quickly recognize this type:

— her gestures are a little strange, her facial expressions are lively, her behavior is demonstratively theatrical (the artist)
— she is infantile (does not mean stupid!), under no circumstances is she going to take responsibility for herself
- often offended
- very emotional and deeply immersed in every emotion
- speaks loudly, as if from the stage
- can throw "tantrums" of the 80th level
- faints, threatens suicide, throws knives⠀

What to do if it's too late to "escape":

- do whatever she says, pamper immensely
- use "force" (be a strict parent)
- exclude the possibility of "being on stage". Hysterical manifestations are always work for the viewer. The best way to stop the hysteria is to leave the hall.



Victim

It's no secret that there are people who are constantly in a state of sacrifice. Moreover, the most interesting thing is that they drive themselves into this state. Unconsciously, over and over again they find themselves in situations in which they can confirm their position.

The most unpleasant feature of a female victim is eternal whining. In her life, everything always goes wrong. The husband offends, the children are naughty, the job is unloved, the salary is small, the repair is old… They often complain about their lives and ask for advice. Only any adequate advice meets strong resistance and thousands of reasons for refusing to follow it.
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The victim will never take responsibility for his life on himself. Her inner child does not know how and does not want to solve problems. It is necessary for someone to do everything for her, since her circumstances do not have independence.
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In a relationship, she is very attached to her partner, depends on him. The victim shifts all responsibility onto him and, drop by drop, sharpens the stone of patience with whining and complaining. She is often accompanied by partners who are prone to addiction and aggression, and these qualities flourish next to the female victim. Subconsciously, she does everything to be offended, humiliated and insulted over and over again, which she manipulates perfectly, expressing her inner aggression.
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The victim is always in a relationship of codependency. When both partners suffer, but they can't get out of them. This is an unpleasant and destructive game, which, nevertheless, usually suits two.⠀

How to recognize this type:

— she is often in a depressed mood
— she is never to blame for what is happening in her life
- she always tries to please, even if it is not in her interests — self
-esteem is low, she takes everything to heart
— everyone offends her, uses her and bales her
- she is absolutely totally helpless
- does not know how to refuse⠀

What to do if it's too late to "escape": ⠀

Ene is the case when you need to "treat" a relationship. Only joint therapy can change the situation.

The other way out is to leave the relationship and grow up alone. Then there is a chance to enter into a more mature stable relationship.



Predator

A terrible woman! She has power because she is not afraid of anything and knows how to use people. She only cares about satisfying her own needs. She has little interest in others, no matter how close they are.
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A predator woman is always hunting for benefits for herself, whether it is material resources or attention. She builds relationships only with people from whom you can get something: money, information, time, physical help, even sex.
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't sing your praises. She is a wonderful manipulator and will immediately see how you can be useful. The predator retains interest as long as something can be taken from you. If there is nothing to take – "Adios!"
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But it's all hidden. You won't see her motives. Because you will fall head over heels in love or you will crave her attention. She looks good, is beautiful, smart, educated, interesting and charismatic. Her coldness attracts with its power. It is very difficult to pass by it. She's gorgeous and knows how to get all your attention. She is good in bed and is ready to give herself to you for a while. But the price is not small.

As a result, it will trample you, suck out all the resources and throw you away as used garbage.

How to quickly recognize this type:

- beautiful and well-groomed
- says a lot about the benefits
- I am very attentive to you, but there is a feeling that you are being studied and tested
- concentrates only on her desires
- plays to the public, bright and artistic
- scares and attracts at the same time
— you yourself want to "serve" her
- ignores your requests, hinting that she does not owe you anything
- looks down on people


What to do if it's too late to "escape":

- try to love her, tame the predator. If she became like this because of a lack of love and acceptance, there is a chance to warm up the snow queen, but this chance is not great.
- clearly mark and observe your boundaries. Such a woman respects the strong and tramples the weak.
- always be one step ahead of her. Develop. If you always have something to give her, she won't leave.



Tyrant (bitch)

It's not just men who can be tyrants. As you know, female aggression is no less terrible and destructive. The main task of a tyrant woman is to suppress the masculine principle in you and dominate the relationship. Moreover, he does it confidently, rigidly and adamantly.
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She will always dominate, but at the same time she will leave the responsibility to you. She is like a capricious child who does not cry, but demands, bites and bullies until she gets her own. This is a child who suppresses even his own parents.
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She does not accept criticism, you do not get out of a state of guilt with her. You are totally controlled, jealous and devalued.

Any resistance is perceived as the beginning of a war in which she cannot lose, because she knows your weaknesses and will not neglect this knowledge. It will hit the sickest one until you give up.
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She does not want to change, she is "the way she is" and that's the end of it. But you only have the right to obey, maneuver and be flexible.

Outwardly, she can be quite plain, often her aggression grows out of the uncertainty of low self-esteem.

How to quickly recognize this type:⠀

- responds aggressively to criticism
- does not know how to empathize and take your place
- prone to abuse
- she is always right, and she has the last word — she does
not recognize authorities ⠀

What to do if it's too late to "escape":⠀

If you are already "stuck", it's up to you to decide. A tyrant woman is not always a total evil. She can be warm and soft at the same time (when she is in a good mood))).
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You can always choose a subordinate position, this is your right. You can hardly change it.
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- work with your self-esteem
- work out the victim in yourself
- protect the borders, do not be fooled by manipulation



Goddess (instagrammer)

Perhaps this is the most "safe" type of relationship from the above.The Goddess has many virtues! She is beautiful, slender, well-groomed, confident (at least in appearance), well dressed.
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The meaning of her existence is to live in high. She knows her worth and will never contact someone who is not ready to maintain her status.
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Infantile to the point of tenderness. The goddess is sure that the whole world is created to meet her needs. She perceives men as an inexhaustible source of compliments, gifts, attention, material support and admiration.

If you are not ready to admire her and "pay" for it, then don't even try. The goddess won't let you in. She needs to be worshipped, to make sacrifices, to give all her time, attention and to make her life beautiful. Otherwise, what is the meaning of existence?
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