So, chatting and flirting with a guy on the Internet boils down to the following rules:
First, decide exactly where you will be looking for an object for seduction: in a chat, on a professional or social forum, on social networks or on a dating site. Remember that if you decide to communicate with guys on dating sites, then you need to choose well-promoted sites, without a bad reputation and those that are not full of candid photos or vulgar calls to meet on the first pages. It is better to avoid vulgar sites right away, since their clients no longer need flirting - they are looking for only partners for one night.
When filling out the profile questionnaire, do not write all the information about yourself, remain a bit of a mystery so that the man will be interested in asking you questions and gradually getting to know you. You can indicate only the basic life principles and hobbies - this will give a hook for acquaintance to your future fans.
Do not provide personal information about yourself: the exact address of residence, place of work, position, mobile and home phone numbers, income level. If meeting some guy interests you, and you want to continue communicating in real life, then you will always have time to write him your mobile number. At the same time, individual information in the questionnaire can greatly ruin your life if you are interested in some very persistent young man whom you have refused to continue dating. For conspiracy, you can even hide your own surname and first name, hiding for the time being with a fictitious name - nickname.
Upload only high-quality beautiful photos to your profile picture and be sure to use your own. You don't want to blush and apologize later if the guy you like, with whom you corresponded for a long time on the Internet, offers to meet, and you put someone else's photo, which initially attracted his attention. It is advisable to display a full-length photo so that guys can evaluate your physique and do not harbor any illusions. But do not expose candid photos, so that later you will not be surprised why only concerned guys write to you or obscene offers immediately come.
Before proceeding to flirting with the guy you like from the photo, carefully study his information about yourself in the profile - some guys write a lot about themselves, so you can roughly imagine who you will have to deal with. But, remember that you can lie on the Internet, so do not take all the information to heart, and if a guy indicates that he occupies some high-paying prestigious position, you should not immediately be glad that you ran into a millionaire. Do not be seduced by photos of a guy near expensive cars, perhaps this car was just standing in the street, and the guy was photographed nearby. By the way, the photo of the guy himself may also turn out to be false, so you also need to be prepared for this.
If the guy indicated a lot of information about himself, try to take this into account in your communication, do not go into confrontation with his interests, life credo and preferences.
There are taboo topics that should not be discussed at all, or discussed very rarely and little. These topics include politics, religion, work. Of course, you can ask about work, but do not be very much interested in work issues, since all men want to relax in communication with a woman and escape from problems.
Themselves also never talk about your problems, do not complain about life and difficult situation. Men clearly do not want to communicate with problem girls, who are all bad and difficult.
You can also start dating and flirting on the Internet first - there is no clear rule here: a guy starts a conversation. Just do not immediately write banal phrases like "hello how are you?" or "I saw your photo and wanted to write to you." Come up with something original, with humor, to immediately hook the guy and make him want to answer you. Just do not make fun of yourself and do not take any conversation into a frivolous course, otherwise the guy will think that you are simply bored, and you are looking for someone to joke and laugh with, and you are not interested in a more serious relationship.
No matter how good your conversation with the guy you like, do not argue with him, do not criticize his views, actions and tastes, and do not be too clever. Smart girls are, of course, good, but nobody likes those who boast about their knowledge or boring people.
Do not use too many emoticons during communication - moderation is needed in everything. An emoticon is a faceless display of emotions that can be interpreted ambiguously. If you want to express your attitude to what has been said, it is better to do it verbally. Yes, and it is advisable to flirt not in the form of a set of emoticons, but through subtle hints, appropriate compliments and appropriate answers to the guy's questions.
When talking about compliments, keep in mind that guys are also very fond of receiving them. Compliment subtly: praise his athletic physique, mark a beautiful smile in a photo, appreciate his T-shirt or business suit. Praise him often for his competence in certain issues.