An invitation to a date on the level of stress can easily compare with a real exam. Of course, in such a case, much depends on the mood of the girl and on her attitude to the young man. A huge role in the communication between a man and a woman is played by their characters, views on life, interests and whether there is a so-called “chemistry”between them.
However, there are certain secrets and subtleties that will significantly increase your chances and hear the cherished "yes".
In this article, we will try to figure out how to invite a girl on a date so that she can not refuse.
Choose a place and time
Long gone are the days when girls were introduced under the supervision and with the permission of their parents. Fortunately, in the modern world, there are fewer conventions, and it is easy to talk to any girl who interests you, especially if it is your classmate or work colleague.
The meeting and subsequent invitation to a date can happen anywhere: at lectures, in a cafe, on the street, in a park, and even on the Internet. Fortunately, there are no more places where it would be “indecent” to get acquainted. So if you see a girl you like, then there is no point in looking for excuses to postpone the acquaintance.
The main thing with so many opportunities is not to mess up and not to make a fool of yourself.
Self-confidence and erudition, of course, will be a huge support for a guy who is going to persuade a girl to go for a walk with him for the first time. However, even a well-prepared person in a non-standard stressful situation can get lost – this is absolutely normal.
That is why I recommend that you prepare for the meeting in advance by studying the experience of others. It is believed that to take the first step and ask out on a date is a man's business, but now the framework is gradually erased. We will talk about this in the article.
The invitation by phone
If you met a girl in a public place, and you exchanged phone numbers, but you do not want to immediately get rejected, you can cheat a little.
Don't ask her out right away, just call her the next day. Try to speak calmly and confidently. You will not only remind her of yourself, but also avoid the frightening situation: an invitation to a first date on the phone is much easier from a psychological point of view. This option is especially suitable in the case when you or the girl were in a hurry somewhere during a real meeting, and you did not have time for a serious conversation.
You do not need to immediately take the bull by the horns and start a phone conversation with an invitation, everything should be natural. For example, ask a girl how her day went, what she plans to do in the coming days, what her hobbies are, or where she likes to spend her free time.
Keep your confidence: your chances are quite high, because if a girl gave you her phone number, it means that she is interested in you, and she is unlikely to refuse to meet you again.
If you decide to ask out a girl you already know, such as a colleague or classmate, then the phone and short messages can be your best helpers. She will definitely not be surprised by your call or SMS, and you will be able to avoid strong excitement and show your best side.
Invitation via a social network
Something that our parents could not have imagined happened. Now you can find a girl without leaving your computer or smartphone. We meet on social networks and invite each other on a date there. If you found your chosen one on the page of one of the social networks, there are rules that will be useful to you.
Create a good impression about yourself on your page: publish positive information, do not use obscene language and do not use indecent images, even if they seem funny to you.
Carefully study the interests of the girl, try to find something in common between you. Participate in the conversations that she starts with her friends in social networks. React to the information she shares. And if you see that the girl is worried about something, offer your help. With such a sympathetic cavalier, she will not refuse to meet in real life.
Remember that it is better to check the message several times before sending it, to avoid stupid typos or errors. At the very beginning of dating, girls pay great attention to the literacy of their cavalier, so you should not take another risk.
Invitation at a personal meeting
If you decide to ask her out on a date in real life, looking straight into her eyes, then you should be especially picky about your appearance. I assure you, a girl will not agree to spend time with a slob, who also gives off a not very pleasant smell.